Do plan ahead! It's good to keep in mind that providers are real women. We have outside responsibilities, just like you, so we're not always available at the drop of a hat. The rule of thumb is that the less notice you me for an appointment, the greater the chances that I won't be able to accommodate you. The more notice you give us, the better we can work with your preferred hours and dates.
Cleanliness is really paramount in the type of service you're going to receive. Please make sure that you're freshly showered, wearing deodorant, and have very recently brushed teeth. Most women, myself included, will offer to let you use our shower facilities before we begin our time, and we'll often have mouthwash, mints or gum available there for you to use. Even if you showered that morning, a day in the office or in nervous anticipation of our appointment can take it's toll. We'll be fresh, clean and nice smelling - and you should be, too.
Please be polite. I know this sounds like common sense, but it needs to be stressed. Remember that sex workers are people too! A polite greeting and inquiring about my services is vastly preferred to telling me how much you want to have intercourse with me or sending me a picture of your penis. There is a time and place for us to be sexual with one another and while you’re introducing yourself isn’t it! If you’re unsure about whether or not you’re in the part of our interaction where you can be free to express yourself sexually, just ask! Flirting after you’ve already booked in advance for my time is much more respectful than trying to get my attention, pictures, and gratification for free. If you text or email and use words like 'whore' or 'hooker', chances are 100% good that I have zero interest in meeting you.
Trying to barter or negotiate my rates is tacky. There are girls out there for every budget, no matter how large or small. If you aren't comfortable with a woman's rates, find one whom you are comfortable with, and book with her, instead. Calling me names, whining, or being aggressive is a great way of making me grateful you can't afford me.
Don’t assume it’s included. Consent is about using your words and talking with me about what you want to experience during our time together. If you’re into having your hands around the back of my neck or want to have a fistful of hair during your experience, don’t just try to do these things spur of the moment, ask! Rough sex and fetishes aren’t off the table, but you need to use your words! No means No - no matter what the question. Asking me to bend the rules I've set up for our own safety and comfort level is rude, intrusive and just plain offensive. Accept it, and move on.
Try to relax and have fun! I'm here to entertain you, and to make a few hours in your life more pleasant. I understand it can be nerve wracking to meet with a new person, so I probably want to sit with you for a moment and try to put you at ease. Visiting a sex worker for the first time can be disorienting. If there's anything you want to tell me, or any questions you have, feel free to talk to me. I want you to have an experience you'll remember with a smile.
